These past few weeks have been rather enlightening because I have been reminded, just how disrespectful people can be.
Many a time I have gone out of my way to help another, to be patient with another, to be there for another yet for the respect not to be returned, is just plain rude. For them to be unwilling to accept me for who I am and the starkness of my honesty, of which contradicts the lies they spew – this can only explain their anger. Haters can go ahead and waste their precious time, hating.
If they cannot find an iota of kindness from within them to pay respect in return or make some room for you, remember that your self worth outweighs theirs by far.
I reserve the right to be comfortable in what I consider to be, MY space. If the respect and patience is not going to be returned, then watch me walk away.
As simple as that because after all, it takes two to tango. 🙂
In order for one to be comfortable and happier, one has to be willing to lose connections with the “noise” in our lives.
“When a flower doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment in which it grows, not the flower.”
~ Alexander Den Heijer
~ SJ (Sara Jae)